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		<title>Religion: Does it Deserve a Bad Rap?</title>
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		<dc:creator>James McDonald</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://www.providencecpc.org/2012/01/14/religion-does-it-deserve-a-bad-rap/' addthis:title='Religion: Does it Deserve a Bad Rap? '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_button_google_plusone" g:plusone:size="medium"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>&#160; Over the past few days, much has been written on the subject and problem of “religion.” Some of this activity was initiated after a short video was released that has gone (using internet jargon du jour) “viral.” When I last checked, this video had collected well over 6 million hits! The video is presented [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://www.providencecpc.org/2012/01/14/religion-does-it-deserve-a-bad-rap/' addthis:title='Religion: Does it Deserve a Bad Rap? ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://www.providencecpc.org/2012/01/14/religion-does-it-deserve-a-bad-rap/' addthis:title='Religion: Does it Deserve a Bad Rap? '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_button_google_plusone" g:plusone:size="medium"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div><p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><a href="http://www.providencecpc.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/Cathedral.png"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1962" style="margin: 10px;" title="Cathedral" src="http://www.providencecpc.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/Cathedral-300x188.png" alt="" width="300" height="188" /></a>Over the past few days, much has been written on the subject and problem of “religion.” Some of this activity was initiated after a short video was released that has gone (using internet jargon du jour) “viral.” When I last checked, this video had collected well over 6 million hits!</p>
<p>The video is presented in pseudo-rap style with artsy video editing that seems designed to appeal to the young, relevant church. The premise is that Jesus came to abolish religion; that He hates religion; that religion is harmful; and that it makes us slaves. The rapper delivers a no holds barred virtual pummeling of what he sees as the problems in the church: Religion.</p>
<p>Though this particular video will likely soon fade away, there are others in the big tent of Christendom who make similar claims. The mantras of the “Jesus People” are being resuscitated today with new life. “No Creed but Christ!” “No Law but Love!” “I Don’t Need Religion; I Need Relationship!” This is very telling as we consider why this particular video has been so successful; it is resonating within the hearts of Christians who desire something real, something personal, something that will impact them. Of course, that is the reality of faith in Christ.</p>
<p>You see, there is really is a problem in the church. And the problem is not a new one. It is an ancient error that dates back to the days after Creation itself. The problem is pride; the problem is legalism (rightly defined); the problem is moralism; the problem is self-delusion. But the problem is <em>not</em> religion.</p>
<p>Perhaps it is simply a matter of semantics; but, we have to remember meanings are important. Etymology is important. Definitions are important. Grammatical precision is important. Words matter. And sadly, as catchy as a rap song may be, it is not a sufficient medium to convey deep Scriptural truth or expose insidious error.</p>
<p>And so, let’s consider for a moment a few definitions. What is religion? The Latin root for the word religion is <em>religionem</em>, which means “respect for what is sacred,” “a reverence for God,” “a careful pondering for what is hallowed.”</p>
<p>Certainly, that doesn’t sound like slavery. That doesn’t sound like death. I would imagine that most pastors across the spectrum of Christendom would encourage their congregants to revere God and to rejoice in the things that please Him. On the contrary, legalism refers to our attempts to appease God’s wrath by our good behavior—to obtain favor with God on our merit. The Bible clearly shows that this is impossible. Our attempts to please God by our own efforts are seen as filthy rags before His eyes (Isaiah 64:6). Likewise, moralism refers to our tendency to focus on behavior, the outside of the cup, rather than what is really in the heart. Yet, the Bible likewise condemns this practice. Anything that is not done in faith is sin (Romans 14:23).</p>
<p>The root of legalism and moralism is found in the corrupted soil of pride, fertilized with the most repulsive self-righteous dung Satan can contrive. Some will take pride in the way they look or think. Some will take pride in what they do or don’t do. Still others will take pride in their “freedom”—and in their belief that they are above “all those legalists.” And, like the Pharisees in the days of Jesus, men take pride in their assemblies; even attempting to keep out those they consider lowly. These are the people who are deluded. And likewise, these are the philosophies that need to be confronted.</p>
<p>Briefly, consider just some of the aspects of the religion we find in the Bible. It begins with the truth that religion has been given from God. Again, religion has to do with our faith, our reverence toward God, and for those things He has established. Instead of giving us a subjective faith, one that is relative or individualistic in nature, God has given us an objective faith—one based on the precepts of His Word.</p>
<p>Ephesians 2 tells us that this faith is a corporate faith where we are “no longer strangers and foreigners, but fellow citizens with the saints and members of the household of God, having been built on the foundation of the apostles and prophets, Jesus Christ Himself being the chief cornerstone” (Eph. 2:19-20). We are a people, not just a person. Yes, we are all called to have a personal relationship with Jesus, but this personal relationship is intertwined and lived out in the midst of the corporate community of faith where we are called a “peculiar people, a holy nation, a chosen generation (1 Peter 2:9).” This is part of true religion; it is rejoicing in the organized Church that Jesus has given us. Jesus indeed established it; and even the gates of Hell will not prevail against it (Matt 16:18).</p>
<p>And in the Church, the Lord has given us the Sacraments of Baptism and Communion. These are again gifts from God that are used to build up our faith. Baptism brings us into covenant community, again, unity with the people of God. Our religion calls us to rejoice in our baptism, to see how God brought us into relationship with Him, and to follow Jesus’ command to “go into all the world,” even baptizing the nations in the name of the Triune God (Matt 28:18-20).</p>
<p>And Communion is also given to us to remind us corporately of the finished work of Jesus on the Cross. When we come together, we are to partake in Communion as a people, a <em>religious</em> people. We fellowship around the Table of the Lord as His <em>Body</em>. He is present there! This is another manifestation of religion.</p>
<p>It is in the Church that the Lord has given officers, deacons and elders. These men are gifts of God (Titus 1:5). The Bible clearly teaches that they are called to these offices by Him. And that they are to assist the church through ministries of helps and teaching. Their offices are exercised in the midst of the church, in the setting of religious activity. Without religion, without the gathering of the saints, there would be no need for these offices. There would be no shepherds to help the sheep. It would be a feeding frenzy for the wolves.</p>
<p>And the religion established by Jesus helps us to know how to love God and how to love other people. Jesus didn’t come to abolish religion, He came to fulfill it! These are His words, “Do not think that I came to destroy the Law or the Prophets. I did not come to destroy but to fulfill.” (Matthew 5:17) The Law of God, the Law that we are repeatedly encouraged to love, is the baseline for how a Christian is to live.</p>
<p>Jesus said that if we love Him, we would keep His commandments (John 14:15); and Jesus said that by loving God and loving our neighbor as ourselves, we indeed fulfill all the Law and the Prophets (Matt 22:38-40). You see, loving people as the Law prescribes and loving God in the manner that He has established is not legalism. We do not obey out of fear, pride, or manipulation. We seek to follow the Lord because of what He has done for us. And this, as James 1:27 tells us, is perfect and undefiled religion. Indeed, it is in religion that we are commanded to take care of the poor and the destitute. The Old Testament Law shows that we are to take care of the widow and the orphan—to take care of the stranger—to welcome those who are hurting (i.e, Ex. 22:21–24, 23:6; Deut. 14:28-29, 24:17-22, 26:8-19). The church, which is the people of God, the people who are religious, revering the Lord and the things He calls sacred, reach out with love! This is the commandment of Scripture. True religion is expressed in outreach from the midst of a community head over heels in love with Jesus.</p>
<p>There are so many other points that could be addressed: the canon of Scripture; the history of the church; the beauty of biblical liturgy; faithful service; the joy of hearing those words, “Well done, my good and faithful servant.” Yet, I hope I have helped anyone who stumbles on this little article to see that pure religion, biblical religion, is a wonderful gift from the Lord that builds our faith and helps us learn how to love Him. It is not legalism, it is not moralism, but it is an expression of faith firmly based on grace.</p>
<p>Religion is expressed in the love of the Church, as the Bride to the Bridegroom. And this religion gives all praise and all glory and all honor to God. Legalism and moralism are big issues in the church today. But so are antinomianism, compromise and worldliness. In our attempt to rectify error, we must not minimize or discard that which God has ordained as sacred. Instead of misrepresenting religion, we must embrace <em>true</em> religion, the religion taught and proclaimed in the Bible. With renewed faith, embrace that which was once delivered to the saints, and praise the Lord for the salvation He has given to His church!</p>
<p><em>And to make it legal, the opinions expressed herein are not necessarily those of the other elders or members of Providence Church.</em></p>
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		<title>Should &#8220;She, Obey Him?&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Dec 2011 20:25:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>James McDonald</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://www.providencecpc.org/2011/12/27/should-she-obey-him/' addthis:title='Should &#8220;She, Obey Him?&#8221; '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_button_google_plusone" g:plusone:size="medium"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>&#160; God’s Word inevitably conflicts with the plans of man. For instance, the Word directs us to acknowledge the God of the Bible as the One True God—we are to have no other gods but Him. Yet the sinful heart of man is inclined to persistent idolatry, seeking to satisfy our need to worship and [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://www.providencecpc.org/2011/12/27/should-she-obey-him/' addthis:title='Should &#8220;She, Obey Him?&#8221; ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://www.providencecpc.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/angrywoman2.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1935" style="margin: 10px;" title="angrywoman2" src="http://www.providencecpc.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/angrywoman2-199x300.jpg" alt="" width="199" height="300" /></a>God’s Word inevitably conflicts with the plans of man. For instance, the Word directs us to acknowledge the God of the Bible as the One True God—we are to have no other gods but Him. Yet the sinful heart of man is inclined to persistent idolatry, seeking to satisfy our need to worship and find assurance in anything and everything but the God of the Bible.</p>
<p>God’s Word tells us to love our neighbor as ourselves. Therefore, we’re commanded not to steal, murder, or bear false witness. Yet men are perennial thieves, liars, and gossips who trample one another in an effort to elevate their own image or status. The Scriptures teach that adultery is sin, yet men and women continue to be unfaithful and deal treacherously with one another. God’s Word tells children to honor their father and mother; yet one can simply turn on the television or walk through any shopping mall to see that the world is far from compliant with this command.</p>
<p>All of God’s commands have been continuously broken since the fall of man. Our hearts are full of &#8220;evil thoughts, adulteries, fornications, murders, thefts, covetousness, wickedness, deceit, lewdness, an evil eye, blasphemy, pride, and foolishness&#8221; (Mark 7:22-23). Without Jesus, we are in bondage to the sin we claim to hate. Of course, we’re liars, because we really love our sin.</p>
<p><strong>Rebels from the Start</strong></p>
<p>We are born rebels. In the Fifth Commandment, when God calls for children to honor their parents, He is teaching us that He is the ultimate source of all authority, and that He has the right to delegate that authority according to His providence, in the home, in the church, and in the civil realm. It is for our good and His glory.</p>
<p>Still, we make all sorts of excuses for why we shouldn’t have to be under anyone’s authority. We piously claim we are under the authority of God alone; but too often we nullify that claim by refusing any real accountability.</p>
<p>When we are taught as children to honor our parents, we are better able to honor authority in other jurisdictional spheres; and ultimately, we are better able to honor the Lord. The <em>Westminster Larger Catechism </em>demonstrates the extension of this principle:</p>
<blockquote><p>Who are meant by father and mother in the fifth commandment?</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>By father and mother, in the fifth commandment, are meant, not only natural parents, (Prov. 23:22,25, Eph. 6:1–2) but all superiors in age (1 Tim. 5:1–2) and gifts; (Gen. 4:20–22, Gen. 45:8) and especially such as, by God’ s ordinance, are over us in place of authority, whether in family, (2 Kings 5:13) church, (2 Kings 2:12, 2 Kings 13:14, Gal. 4:19) or commonwealth. (Isa. 49:23)<strong></strong></p></blockquote>
<p><strong>Submission in Marriage</strong></p>
<p>The Bible is clear. God has established a polity—a government in the home. By God’s decree, the husband is to be the head of the wife, and by default, the ruling authority in the home (i.e., Genesis 2:18-25, 3:16; 1 Corinthians 11:3; Ephesians 5:23, 6:1; Colossians 3:20). It is clear that this polity was established during the time of Creation, before any secular culture had been formed. The polity of the home is by God’s appointment—by His decree and for His glory.</p>
<p>Within the home, the Lord instructs wives to submit to their own husbands (Ephesians 5:22-24, Colossians 3:18). It is interesting to note, the Word does not direct a woman to submit to men in general, only to her own husband (who happens to be commanded to sacrificially love her). This is important because within the Christian faith women are rightful heirs with their husbands of the grace of life (1 Peter 3:7). Indeed, before the throne of God, men and women stand as equals, rejoicing side by side in the finished work of the Savior (Galatians 3:28). Individually, men and women are heirs according to the promise.</p>
<p>And yet, within the home, wives are called to submit to their husbands. Nowhere does the Bible call on husbands to force their wives submit to them. The instruction comes from the Lord directly to wives. There is no more a command for men to make their wives submit than there is a command for women to force their husbands to love them!</p>
<p>Submission begins when a Christian wife recognizes Christ’s love for her and responds with a willingness to obey Him in all things. Then, even though it may go against the norms of society and the desires of the flesh, He calls her to submit to her own husband’s leadership in the Lord. And, in submitting to her husband, she submits to the Word of God.</p>
<p>Husbands are also charged in Scripture—they are commanded to love their wives as Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:25-30), sacrificing, serving, defending, nurturing, leading. Husbands are called to live with their wives in a gentle and understanding way, recognizing their inherent differences (1 Peter 3:7).</p>
<p>Men are called to remember that a wife is a great treasure (Genesis 2:18; Proverbs 18:22, 19:14, 31:10) to be appreciated and cherished. She is given by God; so, together, they might become one flesh (Genesis 2:24), moving forward in unity to fulfill the mission God has given them.</p>
<p>Biblical submission is a beautiful expression in a Christ-honoring marriage. Remember, a Christian wife is a daughter of the King, and a slave to no man. Her service to her husband is a reflection of her willing service to her Lord and King, Jesus.</p>
<p>If a woman forced her husband to love her, we would easily recognize the fact that she was not truly loved at all. Whether or not this husband claimed love with his mouth, we would all know that it was bondage that forced his words. Love can only exist in freedom. He must choose to obey God and sacrificially love his wife, whether or not she is lovable; and in so doing, he makes it easier for her to obey God.</p>
<p>The same is true with biblical submission. If a man forces his wife to submit to him, he has created a slave. But when a wife, by God’s grace, and out of obedience to her Lord and King, willingly submits to a fallible husband, she is a servant—a servant of the Lord and a blessing to her husband. She has yielded her will to the will of her Father for a heavenly purpose. And in so doing, she has made it easier for her husband to love and lead her.</p>
<p>A Christian wife’s submission in marriage is thus not one of mechanical compliance to a husband&#8217;s every whim or desire. If a wife is to truly help and complete her husband, she will often need to provide input on important decisions, and even respectfully challenge a husband’s conclusions at times. However, as long as the husband’s requests are not sinful or unreasonable, a wife should respectfully follow her husband’s lead, even when she is unsure whether or not a decision he has ultimately made is the wisest choice.</p>
<p><strong>Sinning Husbands</strong></p>
<p>But how far does submission go? Sometimes “helping” a husband means confronting him. The Lord often uses those closest to us to help us deal with the sin in our hearts. Biblical submission does not mean that a wife cannot seek help from her elders or other God-ordained authorities regarding a husband’s sin. Christian husbands are sinners, even if they are sanctified sinners.</p>
<p>But this begs the question: What if a submissive Christian wife confronts a husband with his sin, and he doesn’t listen? Or even worse, what if a husband asks his wife to sin? Or what if he sins against his wife or children through cruelty or neglect? Does a Christian wife have any recourse in such a situation? Or should see quietly suffer along with her children while her husband increasingly grows out of control?</p>
<p>In an effort to create their own self-serving domestic kingdom, there are men who have used the Holy Scriptures for personal gain—they have used verses on submission (given to wives) to justify their warped version of domestic tyranny. Some erring church leaders and teachers have instructed women to obey their husbands even to the point of sin (the assumption being made that God will intervene at the last minute). Horror stories of forced abortion, adultery, perversion, pornography, and incest have all been cloaked under the excuse of “submission.”</p>
<p>In some cases, true abuse has been shamefully overlooked and excused by those who should be protectors and guardians of the sheep. One desperate wife and mother appealed to her elders, only to be sent home, chastised for dishonoring her husband, and blamed for not being submissive enough.</p>
<p>This is why rightly dividing the Word of Truth is crucial.  Husbands are to love their wives as Christ loved the church. Jesus would never ask His Bride to sin. Can you even fathom Jesus physically or verbally assaulting His Wife?</p>
<p>Wives are called to submit to their husbands <em>as to the Lord</em>. How do we submit to the Lord? Willingly, selflessly, and cheerfully. Wives are to submit to their husbands in all the same ways she would submit to the Lord. And the Lord would never ask His Bride to sin.</p>
<p><strong>Accountability</strong></p>
<p>There are times when a Christian wife must disobey her husband. She is not called to submit to him in areas where he is walking in unrepentant sin. In times like this, a Christian woman can and should avail herself of the other spheres of jurisdiction that God has established—that of the church, extended family, or, when necessary, the state. God uses these means to restrain evil.</p>
<p>There are indeed biblical precedents for the practice of going to a different jurisdiction when faced with a sinful situation. Abigail, when married to Nabal, went to David and interceded for her foolish husband (1 Samuel 25). In essence, Abigail went beyond her immediate authority to correct a dangerous situation that her husband had brought about. By her actions, she saved her people from death. In Daniel chapter 6, Daniel disobeys the proclamation of King Darius concerning prayer to God. In Acts 5:29, Peter gives that courageous proclamation, “We ought to obey God rather than men.”</p>
<p>And so, there are times when a wife not only can, but <em>must</em> seek help from a higher God-given jurisdiction. These jurisdictions—of home, church, and state—do not stand as isolated islands; they are interconnected powers that work together for the glory of God and the expansion of His Kingdom.</p>
<p>But what should we say of the husband who is not under church authority; who perhaps refuses to attend a faithful church; who has isolated his family and set himself up as lone prophet, priest, and king for the family? What should a wife do in such a case? I believe a Christian wife must follow the Lord. If a husband keeps his family from assembling together for an extended time, and shows no sign of committing to a church, a wife may prayerfully and respectfully appeal to her husband, letting him know that she must find a doctrinally sound church where she and their children can be accountable—and protected (Hebrews 13:17). She may also explain to him that by keeping her from the accountability of a church body, he is asking her to sin (Hebrews 10:25); and she must obey God rather than man (Acts 5:29).</p>
<p>When aligned with the principles of God’s Word, the Christian family, comprised of husband, wife, and children, is a beautiful expression of godly order, sacrifice, love, and Gospel expansion. Therefore, we have an obligation to live within the bounds of biblical authority; otherwise we have lawlessness, chaos, and tyranny.</p>
<p>Our call as Christians is to obey the commands of the Lord, even when they are not considered culturally relevant. This includes biblical submission to authority; and, regardless of station, we are all under authority—authority which exists for God’s glory. The Fifth Commandment was given along with a promise, “Honor your father and your mother that your days may be long upon the land which the Lord your God is giving you.&#8221; (Exodus 20:12) As we train our children, we must instill in them an understanding of the consequences and magnitude of this important mandate from God. As Christians, we all desire that our children know the peace of God, and the God of peace. But do we fully understand that this blessing often comes as children see the God of peace manifested in the actions of parents? It is much more than what we say—it is far more in what we do (Phil 4:9).</p>
<p><em>And to make it legal, the opinions expressed herein are not necessarily those of the other elders or members of Providence Church.</em></p>
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		<title>Appreciating Teachable Moments</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Dec 2011 04:37:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>James McDonald</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://www.providencecpc.org/2011/11/30/appreciating-teachable-moments/' addthis:title='Appreciating Teachable Moments '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_button_google_plusone" g:plusone:size="medium"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>&#160; Each evening, our family gathers together at the dinner table to enjoy the evening meal and some stimulating conversation. This evening was typical. Discussions ranged from shopping adventures, the wild weather we’ve had, and birthday dinners. Then, one of my daughters brought up a new topic. She asked me if I had seen a [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://www.providencecpc.org/2011/11/30/appreciating-teachable-moments/' addthis:title='Appreciating Teachable Moments ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://www.providencecpc.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/o_holy_night.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1903" style="margin: 10px;" title="o_holy_night" src="http://www.providencecpc.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/o_holy_night-300x193.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="193" /></a>Each evening, our family gathers together at the dinner table to enjoy the evening meal and some stimulating conversation. This evening was typical. Discussions ranged from shopping adventures, the wild weather we’ve had, and birthday dinners.</p>
<p>Then, one of my daughters brought up a new topic. She asked me if I had seen a particular video that was making the rounds on Facebook. She said it was a musical performance of a young man singing the Christmas carol, “O, Holy Night.” However, the young man did not sing well. It seemed he was either under the impression that he had an amazing voice, and thus put the clip up for the world to hear; or, he was purposely howling and moaning into the microphone as if he were in pain to get a few laughs. My daughter thought the video was hilarious.</p>
<p>But I was not laughing. I told her I had not seen it, but I was troubled she found it amusing. She asked me why, so I offered her my thoughts.</p>
<blockquote><p>O Holy Night! The stars are brightly shining,<br />
It is the night of the dear Saviour’s birth.<br />
Long lay the world in sin and error pining.<br />
Till He appeared and the Spirit felt its worth.</p>
<p>A thrill of hope the weary world rejoices,<br />
For yonder breaks a new and glorious morn.<br />
Fall on your knees! Oh, hear the angel voices…</p></blockquote>
<p>First, this is a song of high praise written to commemorate the birth of our Savior. Even if the young man was sincere, and felt he was singing praises to the Lord, there would be nothing to laugh about in that.</p>
<p>On the other hand, if this young man was purposely mocking the song, then he was (whether or not he mean to) scorning the Lord of glory. And again, there would be nothing to laugh about. There’s just something sickening about the words “It is the night of our dear Saviour’s birth” being sung in mockery while even Christians laugh.</p>
<p>I could tell by my daughter’s countenance she was not receiving what I had to say. She thought it was funny and wanted to keep it that way. Her demeanor revealed that she thought I was overreacting. She was not being teachable. I wondered if she indeed couldn’t see my point, or if she “got it,” but was embarrassed because she had thought it funny. Sometimes pride keeps us from admitting we were wrong.</p>
<p>As I look back over my own life, I can see that in my youth I was often not teachable. I was headstrong and confident, sure of my positions on many issues; and, quick to grab my soapbox to pontificate what I thought were high and noble ideals. I was also less than willing to listen to the thoughts of others. And even if I discovered I was indisputably wrong on an issue, I never admitted it. I just moved on to the next thing I could be “right” about.</p>
<p>Reflecting back, I can see where I was often prideful and hard-hearted. I was less inclined to consider the positions of others, and being right was far more important than learning something from someone else.</p>
<p>We Reformed folk tend to be a little set in our ways. I am a pastor in a Reformed denomination. I have been blessed to speak at many homeschooling conventions around the nation and feel passionate about the topics I teach. I am a biblical conservative who looks forward to the day when, as we pray in the Lord’s prayer, “God’s will be done on earth as it is in Heaven.” And I am confident of the positions espoused by each of these attributes. Folks like me can be a bit, shall we say, obstinate?</p>
<p>But here is the Achilles Heel. It seems the more we know ourselves to be right on the big issues, the less likely we are to admit we have a problem on small, seemingly insignificant issues.</p>
<p>The issue is pride—we are a prideful people. I see this at times in my children, and I see this at times in the Church. When a brother or sister points out an area where we are wrong, we are often reluctant to admit our error. We look for a loophole; we grasp excuses, we blame others. We may even search to find a speck in the brother’s eye who has corrected us, thinking that nullifies his correction.</p>
<p>Yet, it was Jesus who said, “Blessed are the meek for they shall inherit the earth.” (<a href="http://biblia.com/bible/esv/Matthew%205.5" data-version="ESV" data-reference="Matthew 5.5">Matthew 5:5</a>). It was James who advised, “Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and He will lift you up.” (<a href="http://biblia.com/bible/esv/James%204.10" data-version="ESV" data-reference="James 4.10">James 4:10</a>). And the writer of Proverbs challenges us directly with this, “The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, but he who heeds counsel is wise.” (<a href="http://biblia.com/bible/esv/Proverbs%2012.15" data-version="ESV" data-reference="Proverbs 12.15">Proverbs 12:15</a>) “Whoever loves instruction loves knowledge, but he who hates correction is stupid.” (<a href="http://biblia.com/bible/esv/Proverbs%2012.1" data-version="ESV" data-reference="Proverbs 12.1">Proverbs 12:1</a>)</p>
<p>Now if that last verse doesn’t hurt, I am not sure what will. I remember a time when God drove that one home to me. I was being confronted by a brother for something I viewed as insignificant. And because I knew I was right on the macro scale, I was unable to see how wrong I was in the area my brother pointed out. I focused on all the “wrongness” of the situation. I focused on how my brother had sinned against me in other areas. And my “rightness” was a big neon sign in my own eyes. I was unable to see my own sin because I was so caught up in making sure everyone saw my neon sign. The best way to describe is as we see in <a href="http://biblia.com/bible/esv/Proverbs%2012.1" data-version="ESV" data-reference="Proverbs 12.1">Proverbs 12:1</a> – I was stupid.</p>
<p>But God, in His grace, opened my eyes then and there. I saw that I was letting my pride blind me to a real weakness in my life. It was the Lord who helped me see. It was the Lord who helped me repent. That was a humbling moment. Yet, that was a freeing moment.</p>
<p>Many of the folks who read my articles can be infected by this same sin, this same tendency. We are those who “know better.” We have a handle on orthodoxy and orthopraxy – right doctrine and right practice. Our camp does not need to be taught. We are the “teachers!”</p>
<p>But stop for a moment. Have you considered these words from the Apostle Paul?</p>
<blockquote><p>Not that I have already attained, or am already perfected; but I press on, that I may lay hold of that for which Christ Jesus has also laid hold of me. Brethren, I do not count myself to have apprehended; but one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind and reaching forward to those things which are ahead, I press toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. Therefore let us, as many as are mature, have this mind; and if in anything you think otherwise, God will reveal even this to you. Nevertheless, to the degree that we have already attained, let us walk by the same rule, let us be of the same mind. (<a href="http://biblia.com/bible/esv/Philippians%203.12-16" data-version="ESV" data-reference="Philippians 3.12-16">Philippians 3:12-16</a>)</p></blockquote>
<p>The Apostle Paul had not attained perfection! Even this man, who was used of the Lord to pen much of the New Testament, was seeking to be teachable!</p>
<p>And so, I ask you, do you think you have already attained? Are you a paragon of biblical knowledge and virtue? Are you here only to teach and not to learn? If so, you’re stupid. If you have a problem with this statement, argue with the Bible.</p>
<p>Are you still teachable? Are you willing to learn from others—even those who may believe differently than you on certain points? Are you often sarcastic or abrasive in your speech when conflict arises? Are you aware of your own tendency to sinful pride?</p>
<blockquote><p>Poverty and shame will come to him who disdains correction, but he who regards a rebuke will be honored. (<a href="http://biblia.com/bible/esv/Proverbs%2013.18" data-version="ESV" data-reference="Proverbs 13.18">Proverbs 13:18</a>)</p>
<p>Do not correct a scoffer, lest he hate you; rebuke a wise man, and he will love you. Give instruction to a wise man, and he will be still wiser; teach a just man, and he will increase in learning. (<a href="http://biblia.com/bible/esv/Proverbs%209.8-9" data-version="ESV" data-reference="Proverbs 9.8-9">Proverbs 9:8-9</a>)</p></blockquote>
<p>And so, friends, I encourage you to consider your attitude when you are challenged. Don’t allow pride to stiffen your neck. Seek the Lord to see what you can learn from each situation. Remember that the Lord is still working on you. I am thankful He is still working on me. Look to learn something from the fellow believers you meet. And, in addition to speaking the truth in love, seek to be teachable.</p>
<p><em>And to make it legal, the opinions expressed herein are not necessarily those of the other elders or members of Providence Church.</em></p>
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		<title>Advent Readings for 2011</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Nov 2011 17:41:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>James McDonald</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://www.providencecpc.org/2011/11/25/advent-readings-for-2010/' addthis:title='Advent Readings for 2011 '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_button_google_plusone" g:plusone:size="medium"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>This coming Sunday, November 27, marks the first Sunday in the season of Advent, which marks the beginning of the Christian calendar. It is the four week period that precedes the day set aside to acknowledge Jesus&#8217; incarnation (December 25). In these four weeks, many Protestants historically have used this time to ponder the wonder [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://www.providencecpc.org/2011/11/25/advent-readings-for-2010/' addthis:title='Advent Readings for 2011 ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
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<p>This coming Sunday, November 27, marks the first Sunday in the season of Advent, which marks the beginning of the Christian calendar. It is the four week period that precedes the day set aside to acknowledge Jesus&#8217; incarnation (December 25). In these four weeks, many Protestants historically have used this time to ponder the wonder of what we read in John 1:14, that the Word became flesh and dwelt among us. We recount the need for Jesus&#8217; incarnation: to redeem a people to Himself and to defeat the work of Satan. We remember the prophecies that tell of His birth and how they have all been completely fulfilled. And we look forward in hope to His second coming, praying for the day when the knowledge of the Lord covers the earth as the waters cover the sea (Habakkuk 2:14).</p>
<p>As I type these words, I am aware that there are some who do not appreciate the church calendar. I used to be one of those. There was a time when I considered it only a &#8220;Roman&#8221; thing. Yet, over the years, I have come to see it as a helpful tool to teach our children about the life of Jesus throughout the year, and the redemption we have in Him. We use the church calendar in our home to augment our family worship. This is not a Roman thing. And the calendar does not bind us in our corporate worship. But in my home, we take time to teach our children about Jesus, His work, and His reign, using the church calendar as an aid. This is especially helpful during the season of Advent.</p>
<p>So, if you would like to use this time to focus your household on the work of Jesus during this season, consider using these readings below. I would like to thank my friends Dr. George Grant and Greg Wilbur of <a href="http://parishpres.org" target="_blank">Parish Presbyterian Church</a> for compiling these and making them available to the broader church.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>First Sunday in Advent: </strong><br />
Genesis 3:1-15<br />
The Fall of Man and the first promise of the Messiah is revealed.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Monday<br />
Genesis 22:15-18<br />
God promises to faithful Abraham that in his seed all nations of the earth shall be blessed.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Tuesday<br />
Isaiah 7:14; 9:2-7<br />
Christ’s birth and kingdom are foretold by the prophet Isaiah.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Wednesday<br />
Isaiah 11:1-9<br />
A rod shall come forth from the stem of Jesse.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Thursday<br />
Micah 5:2-4<br />
The glory of little Bethlehem is foretold by the prophet Micah.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Friday<br />
Malachi 4:1-3<br />
The Sun of Righteousness, the Daystar, shall arise.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Saturday<br />
Isaiah 40:1-11<br />
Comfort ye my people.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>Second Sunday in Advent</strong><br />
Luke 1:5-25<br />
The birth of John the Baptist is foretold to Zacharias.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Monday<br />
Luke 1:26-38<br />
The angel Gabriel’s annunciation to the virgin Mary of the Incarnation.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Tuesday<br />
Matthew 1:18-25<br />
The angel of the Lord comes to Joseph in a dream.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Wednesday<br />
Luke 1:39-56<br />
Mary visits Elizabeth, the mother of John the Baptist.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Thursday<br />
Luke 1:57-66<br />
The birth of John the Baptist</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Friday<br />
Isaiah 60:1-4<br />
Arise, shine! For your light has come.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Saturday<br />
Exodus 20:1-17<br />
The Law of God that we in our own strength cannot keep.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>Third Sunday in Advent</strong><br />
Luke 2:1-7<br />
Luke tells of the birth of Jesus.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Monday<br />
Micah 4:1-7<br />
All nations shall find peace from the God of Jacob.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Tuesday<br />
Luke 2:8-14<br />
The angels proclaim the birth of Christ to the shepherds.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Wednesday<br />
Psalm 98<br />
The Lord has made known his salvation.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Thursday<br />
Luke 2:15-20<br />
The shepherds go to the manger.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Friday<br />
Philippians 2:5-11<br />
The humility of Christ.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Saturday<br />
Titus 2:11-3:7<br />
The grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>Fourth Sunday in Advent</strong><br />
John 1:1-14<br />
John unfolds the great mystery of the incarnation—the coming of the Lamb of God.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Monday<br />
John 1:15-37<br />
John unfolds the great mystery of the incarnation—the coming of the Lamb of God.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Tuesday<br />
Revelation 5:1-14<br />
John reveals the glory of the completed work of Christ—the exalted Lamb of God.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Wednesday<br />
Luke 2:1-7<br />
Luke tells of the birth of Jesus.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Thursday<br />
Luke 2:15-20<br />
The shepherds go to the manger.</p>
<p><em>And to make it legal, the opinions expressed herein are not necessarily those of the other elders or members of Providence Church.</em></p>
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		<title>Dear Santa&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Nov 2011 17:54:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>James McDonald</dc:creator>
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<p>This week, many citizens of these United States will be descending upon temples of American enterprise, malls, to sacrifice expressions of their labors to the god of consumption. We call this day Black Friday, a day where retailers go from being in the red (posting a loss on the books) to being in the black (turning a profit). In recognition of this year&#8217;s event, I wanted to share some thoughts I wrote a couple of years ago for my friends at <em><a href="http://www.highlandsministriesonline.org/registration.php" target="_blank">Every Thought Captive</a></em>. This is based on a true account from my distant past. I pray it blesses you.</p>
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<p>Dear Santa,</p>
<p>The first time I remember hearing of you I had just turned four. My parents, my little brother, Joe, and I were living in a small, squalid, one-bedroom motel room. Joe and I slept in the living area. My parents occupied the one and only bedroom. The floors were covered with empty cigarette packages and beer bottles. I recall a black velvet painting of a sailing ship on the wall. I would imagine sailing away on that vessel.</p>
<div id="attachment_1895" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://www.providencecpc.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/WhenIwas4.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1895 " style="margin: 10px;" title="WhenIwas4" src="http://www.providencecpc.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/WhenIwas4-300x295.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="295" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Joe and I are the two on the left.</p></div>
<p>Ours was not a home filled with grace and peace. Rather, my memories are filled with tears and anger. I witnessed true domestic violence, although I didn’t know what to call it at the time. To me, anger and hurtful words were part of life. I didn’t like it, but I didn’t know why. It seemed wrong, but what was right? I would often cry myself to sleep as the battle raged in the next room. I was in constant fear that either my father or my mother would leave me.</p>
<p>One night, a few weeks before Christmas, my father roughly woke me. He was taking me with him…somewhere. He was angry and shouting at my mother. I don’t remember the words, but I recall the crushing fear. He put me in the car and sped out of the motel parking lot.</p>
<p>I was left in the car shivering while my father went in to a store and purchased a couple of items – and a bottle. When he got back in the car, he opened the bottle and took a long drink. Then something strange happened; he stretched  across the front seat, put his head in my lap, and sobbed heavily. I remember leaning over him, holding his head with my small hands, and joining him in an emotional outpouring.  This was my life.</p>
<p>There weren’t visions of sugarplums dancing in my head—I longed for security, peace, and, most of all, love. I never once recall asking you to bring me toys or candy, but I would have been so grateful for even a spark of hope—hope that there was more to life than what I’d seen so far.</p>
<p>Christmas morning, my parents seemed uncharacteristically happy. There was an odd and contradictory aroma in the air, a combination of Camel cigarettes and roasting turkey. Football was on the television. I remember my father trying to adjust the rabbit ears to get better reception. He liked football.</p>
<p>And then a box was placed in front of me. My parents told me it had come from you. I was informed that you bring gifts once a year to good little boys and girls. Mom sang me a tune that had a line, “You better watch out, you better not cry, you better not pout, I’m telling you why. Santa Clause is coming to town.” Again, I was confused. Though I tried, I knew I wasn’t very good. Why would you bring something to me? Maybe there was hope. I tore into the paper with curiosity and expectation.</p>
<p>Inside, I found a train set! A steam engine, some track, two cars, and a caboose. My mother took some time to help me put it together. Joe wanted to play with it too; but, I didn’t want him to break it. My father watched football.</p>
<p>Oh, how happy I was! The train went around and around. The turkey bouquet filled the room, nearly covering the cigarette odor. My father opened another beer. But I discovered that day that happiness doesn’t last. My father’s team wasn’t doing well.</p>
<p>The game ended and my father’s team had lost. The anger in the room grew thick. Fear again gripped my young heart. My father was irritated that dinner was taking so long. He snapped that the room was too warm. Then he opened the door, even though it was snowing outside. My mother went to close the door. Knowing what that meant, Joe and I went to a corner of the room and held one another.</p>
<p>Somewhere in the midst of the battle, my father kicked my new train set into the air. I cried out “No!” The train set was shattered, and so was my momentary happiness. The misty illusion of tranquility was blown away by the stark reality of fury.</p>
<p>So, Santa, you aren’t who they say you are. Your song misrepresents you. If you could indeed “see me when I’m sleeping,“ or if you knew when I had “been bad or good,” not only would you have known that I wasn’t really good, you would also have known that my father was an angry man. You would have been able to foresee that the gift you brought me was destined for almost immediate destruction.</p>
<p>But don’t worry, Santa, I am no longer confused. I now understand that you are neither omnipresent nor omniscient. As a young adult, I was given true hope; I put my faith in Jesus Christ and now I finally have that love I so longed for—that peace that passes all understanding.</p>
<p>So, Santa, I’m writing today to let you know that little boys and girls don’t really need presents. What they need is love, security, nurture, and discipline. They need godly examples in their lives; but, most of all they need to know the only One who gives eternal joy—the one who loves them so much that He died for them.</p>
<p>Santa, as I write these words, I understand that you are not real. I know that you only exist in the good intentions of parents. You didn’t really give me that train set; my parents did. And just think how much better it would have been for me to know that then.</p>
<p>Not all families live the way we did. Some live in great prosperity with manicured lawns and immaculate homes. Some even live with a form of godliness; but, still live with the same emptiness—the same hopelessness that we experienced.</p>
<p>Too many parents think that you and your gifts are what make a childhood rich and complete. But you are an illusion—a manufactured façade of true joy—a counterfeit. What children need more than anything else isn’t going to come from you, as nice as you may be.</p>
<p>What is going to change their lives and give them hope isn’t going to be wrapped in pretty paper, lying under a tree with blinking lights. You see, children don’t need an illusory image of Santa Claus, they need the reality of Jesus Christ, the Son of God. So, thanks for the toys, but I’ll take the real stuff. And that’s what I’ll be giving to my children too.</p>
<p>Now, my parents are dead. But you still live on in the good but often misplaced intentions, of other parents.  So, Santa, consider what you are giving children this year. On the day where the Nativity is remembered, are you giving them Jesus?</p>
<p>I miss you mom and dad. And I love you,</p>
<p>James</p>
<p><em>And to make it legal, the opinions expressed herein are not necessarily those of the other elders or members of Providence Church.</em></p>
<h6>Originally published in November/December 2009 issue <a href="https://www.highlandsstore.com/subscriptions.cfm" target="_blank">Every Thought Captive</a> &#8211; are you a subscriber?</h6>
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		<title>Seven Billion People: A Curse or a Blessing?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2011 23:55:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>James McDonald</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://www.providencecpc.org/2011/10/31/seven-billion-people-a-curse-or-a-blessing/' addthis:title='Seven Billion People: A Curse or a Blessing? '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_button_google_plusone" g:plusone:size="medium"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>Just after midnight on October 31, 2011, Danica May Camacho was born in the Philippines. This young one was given the title of the earth’s 7,000,000,000th inhabitant. For the first time ever, the population of the earth is now estimated at seven billion people. For some, the news of this milestone is not a reason [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://www.providencecpc.org/2011/10/31/seven-billion-people-a-curse-or-a-blessing/' addthis:title='Seven Billion People: A Curse or a Blessing? ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://www.providencecpc.org/2011/10/31/seven-billion-people-a-curse-or-a-blessing/' addthis:title='Seven Billion People: A Curse or a Blessing? '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_button_google_plusone" g:plusone:size="medium"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div><p><a href="http://www.providencecpc.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/Earth-population.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1848" title="Earth-population" src="http://www.providencecpc.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/Earth-population-300x182.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="182" /></a></p>
<p>Just after midnight on October 31, 2011, Danica May Camacho was born in the Philippines. This young one was given the title of the earth’s 7,000,000,000<sup>th</sup> inhabitant. For the first time ever, the population of the earth is now estimated at seven billion people.</p>
<p>For some, the news of this milestone is not a reason for celebration; instead, they see it as a harbinger of doom. Demographic “experts” warn us of food shortage, damage to the environment, accelerated climate change, energy shortage, increased illiteracy, the mistreatment of women and the “marginal” in society; and even the prospect of yet another global war with apocalyptic consequences.</p>
<p>Some of the more radical activists are calling for policies to reduce the world’s population to no more than 2 billion people. Which may lead us to wonder how they will do that. Forced sterilization? Aggressive euthanasia? Genocide?</p>
<p>Now, it is indeed true that man can and does cause much heartache, pain, and destruction in the world. All one has to do is look down through the annals of history and see the countless stories of how greed and aggression have wrought great destruction to the environment and to society. This has become increasingly evident over the past 250 years. From the robber barons of the 18<sup>th</sup> century to the terrorist activities of the 21<sup>st</sup> century, man has proven to be a very destructive force, resulting in destruction and mayhem on every continent. And we all know that starvation is real. Drought is real. Famine is real. And, we are fully aware that death is real.</p>
<p>Before we go on, how many people make up seven billion people? Well, seven billion, of course. And that number may indeed seem daunting. That is, until you compare it to the world’s land mass. In fact, if you were to relocate the entire world’s population to one location, all seven billion would be able to live comfortably in Texas with 1065 square feet per person. That would leave the rest of the globe for food, energy, and water production. By the way, I am not advocating a mass relocation to the Lone Star State. Besides, I doubt any St Louis Cardinal fan would make the trek.</p>
<p>There is another question that we should consider: Would fewer people really mean a kinder, safer, more peaceful world? No. While the impact of manmade disasters may be less costly, there would still be trials and challenges. You see, the issue is not in the number of people; the issue is the heart of man. The Bible clearly defines the real problem with these words:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">“The fool has said in his heart, ‘There is no God.’ They are corrupt, and have done abominable iniquity; there is none who does good. God looks down from heaven upon the children of men, to see if there are any who understand, who seek God. Every one of them has turned aside; they have together become corrupt; there is none who does good, no, not one.” (Psalm 53:1–3).</p>
<p>And Jesus nailed the problem on the head when He said that it is “what comes out of a man that defiles a man. For from within, out of the heart of men, proceed evil thoughts, adulteries, fornications, murders, thefts, covetousness, wickedness, deceit, lewdness, an evil eye, blasphemy, pride, foolishness.” (Mark 7:20–22) The issue again is not the number of people; it is the sinful hearts that manifest themselves in sinful actions—actions that typically harm others.</p>
<p>With that, consider that the Bible clearly declares that children are a blessing, not a curse. Children are gifts from God (Psalm 127:3-5) and, they are not accidents of biology. The birth of each child is decreed by God. He is the one who formed him in the womb. (Psalm 139:13-14) God is not surprised by the number of children conceived—the number of people on the planet. He ordained it!</p>
<p>In a way, what we are seeing is a component of the Dominion Mandate, a command God gave when He said, “Be fruitful and multiply; fill the earth and subdue it; have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over every living thing that moves on the earth.” (Genesis 1:28)</p>
<p>God wants more than just children; He wants godly seed! (Malachi 2:15) Godly seed are people who will not only proclaim Jesus as their Savior; they will live their lives proclaiming Him as their Lord! They are the ones who will live for others, not for themselves. Godly seed are the ones who will reach out to the hurting, to the lonely, to the forsaken. Godly seed will welcome the call to serve others in positions of leadership in the church, in business, and in government, serving society according to God’s Word.</p>
<p>Godly seed are the chosen ones who will steward the earth, managing the resources God has given us, making sure that fresh water, healthy food, and suitable housing are available for even the most destitute on the planet. Godly seed are those who will seek out the mysteries of Creation itself, leveraging scientific discovery for the betterment of mankind and the growth of the Kingdom of God. Godly seed are those who will invest themselves in the arts, in music, in literature, in architecture, in healing the sick, in literature, in film to point the world to the beauty of the Lord.</p>
<p>When Jesus taught us to pray, He said that we are to implore that His Kingdom come, that God’s will be done, on earth as it is in Heaven. This prayer becomes reality as we see godly seed expand across the face of this globe.</p>
<p>So, how do we get there? How do we see this come to pass? It starts when we believe that our God is sovereign, that He is at work, that His plan will not be thwarted, and that even right now, He is shaking down the nations (Haggai 2:7) until the time that the knowledge of the glory of the Lord covers the earth like the waters cover the sea (Habakkuk 2:14).</p>
<p>As we await His work, we who are Christians realize that the Lord has called us to be His witnesses, to serve Him without fear in holiness and righteousness (Luke 1:74-75), sharing with the lost the glory of the Lord until the day when the Great Commission is fulfilled (Matthew 28:18-20).</p>
<p>The news of seven billion people should not bring to the heart of the Christian undue fear; it should instead bring excitement—excitement for the Kingdom, excitement for the Gospel, excitement that we not only get to see the Lord work before our eyes, but that we have the privilege to participate in this great adventure!</p>
<p>As Jesus said, “The harvest truly is great, but the laborers are few; therefore pray the Lord of the harvest to send out laborers into His harvest.” (Luke 10:2) We have been given the task of praying for more laborers to enter this expanding mission field for the glory of the Lord. Let us be about that labor of prayer. And let us be about the work of living for Jesus, that His name might be glorified, even among the heathen.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">“’The nations shall know that I am the Lord,’ says the Lord God, ‘when I am hallowed in you before their eyes.’” (Ezekiel 36:23)</p>
<p><em>And to make it legal, the opinions expressed herein are not necessarily those of the other elders or members of Providence Church.</em></p>
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		<title>Guarding the Garden without Bruising the Fruit</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Oct 2011 14:30:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>James McDonald</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://www.providencecpc.org/2011/10/27/guarding-the-garden-without-bruising-the-fruit/' addthis:title='Guarding the Garden without Bruising the Fruit '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_button_google_plusone" g:plusone:size="medium"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>We live on two beautiful acres in the middle of nowhere Illinois. When God moved us from the concrete suburbs of Katy, Texas to the fertile soil of the Midwest, we had dreams of a lush garden filled with easy-to-grow vegetables and fruit trees. Though we had enjoyed our backyard garden in our southeast Texas [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://www.providencecpc.org/2011/10/27/guarding-the-garden-without-bruising-the-fruit/' addthis:title='Guarding the Garden without Bruising the Fruit ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://www.providencecpc.org/2011/10/27/guarding-the-garden-without-bruising-the-fruit/' addthis:title='Guarding the Garden without Bruising the Fruit '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_button_google_plusone" g:plusone:size="medium"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div><p><a href="http://www.providencecpc.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/garden-weeds.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1792" style="margin: 10px;" title="garden-weeds" src="http://www.providencecpc.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/garden-weeds.jpg" alt="" width="225" height="224" /></a>We live on two beautiful acres in the middle of nowhere Illinois. When God moved us from the concrete suburbs of Katy, Texas to the fertile soil of the Midwest, we had dreams of a lush garden filled with easy-to-grow vegetables and fruit trees. Though we had enjoyed our backyard garden in our southeast Texas neighborhood, we looked forward to a more extensive agricultural footprint in Central Illinois.</p>
<p>I will never forget the first few gardens we planted after moving here. We dug up a pretty good parcel of land and planted a diverse group of herbs and vegetables. We did all that we could to ensure that the native weeds and morning glory were eradicated from our gardening plot. We meticulously crafted the rows, ensuring that there would be sufficient drainage to assist us with irrigation. We erected a little fence around our garden in an attempt to keep the Midwest critters out of our potential cornucopia.</p>
<p>But a few things happened between planting and harvest; we faced challenges as a result of both our neglect and our overzealous approach to gardening. The first problem we had was overzealous weeding. When a little green sprout would appear from the earth, pint-sized hands would mistake things such as radishes and carrots for common grass. They had little discernment concerning what was a weed and what was a tender budding plant.</p>
<p>Another challenge we had was distraction. Due to a number of out-of-town ministry opportunities that took us away from our garden for days at a time, our garden suffered the attack of weeds, insects, and four-legged invaders. We would return home to find tomato plants strangled by the dreaded morning glory or our neglected green treasures eaten by hungry little thieves.</p>
<p>Even the harvest itself was disappointing. Our early neglect of the garden produced ugly, pathetic vegetables, reducing the incentive to get out there and “deal with” it. Because of the menacing weeds and the army of invading bugs, our city-raised clan wasn’t excited about jumping into the thick brush to rescue sickly cucumbers or rotting tomatoes. We learned that gardening requires significant focus, concentrated work, and real prayer.</p>
<p>As an elder, I have learned similar lessons about lovingly leading and protecting the flock of God. Just as I would like to go back and redo those first couple of years here in Illinois, taking more time to protect and nurture the plants in our garden, I would also like to go back and rework areas in the church where I was not as tender as I should have been, or as watchful as I might have been.</p>
<p>There are definitely parallels between gardening and shepherding. Both have a goal in mind &#8211; and that goal is to protect and nurture that which would produce good fruit. Both the elder and the gardener must be dedicated to the task at hand, serving to maintain an appropriate balance between nurture and militancy. Regardless of whether we’re nurturing plants or people, we need to rely on the grace of God and on His providential care of us and those under our charge.</p>
<p>Hebrews 13:17 tells those in the church, &#8220;Obey those who rule over you, and be submissive, for they watch out for your souls, as those who must give account. Let them do so with joy and not with grief, for that would be unprofitable for you.”</p>
<p>This is indeed an amazing Scripture because it points out the heavy burden of shepherding a flock. Instead of being held responsible for a basket of tomatoes and cucumbers, elders will answer to the Lord for the souls of those in his congregation. It is crucial that an elder recognize this burden of responsibility and be careful not to neglect his duty. Whether or not those who sit in the pews appreciate the burden we carry; we still have the charge of ensuring that their lives manifest good fruit.</p>
<p>In order to get there, in order to see good fruit realized, there is an important need for both tender nurture and vigilant guardianship. The Apostle Paul spent quite a bit of time in Acts 20, exhorting the Ephesian elders to fulfill their responsibilities with honor. As he did so, he reminded them of the type of minister that he was: one who served with humility, one who watered the people with the whole counsel of God, one who would go house to house with the good news of salvation in Jesus.</p>
<p>He encouraged these elders to take notice of their flocks—of their spiritual gardens. He said to beware of savage wolves that would come in and spare not the flock—who would rise up and draw away people unto themselves. We must be watchful—prepared to deal with those who would come with the intent of dividing or deluding those God has placed under our care.</p>
<p>The challenge for an elder is to learn how to guard his flock without manhandling plants as if they are weeds or neglecting to tenderly nurture those under his care because of the distractions or busyness of “ministry.” We who are called to lead are also called to labor. Weeds are easy to eradicate if they are discovered early. Left to grow, weeds can choke the life out of a garden, hiding the sun and stealing nutrients. Likewise, challenges in the church, if left to grow out of control, can destroy the life, ministry, and joy of a fellowship. Like gardeners, elders must be those who get their hands dirty.</p>
<p>And, we must recognize that we will never get it right—at least not on our own. As a gardener relies on the Lord for His help in bringing the sun and the rain in an appropriate balance, so an elder must rely on God&#8217;s guidance in dealing with the souls in the church.</p>
<p>There will be times when we will mishandle situations, overlook attacks on the inside and out, and we may even bruise a young, tender heart. When this happens, we must be quick to learn from our mistakes, humbly repent, and ask for forgiveness. We must look to the Great Shepherd to send forth His healing rays of growth and refreshing times of spiritual rain. We are called to lovingly tend a fruitful garden. Let us do so for the Lord&#8217;s glory and for the growth of His kingdom.</p>
<p><em>And to make it legal, the opinions expressed herein are not necessarily those of the other elders or members of Providence Church.</em></p>
<h6>Originally published in September/October2011 issue <a href="https://www.highlandsstore.com/subscriptions.cfm" target="_blank">Every Thought Captive</a> &#8211; are you a subscriber?</h6>
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		<title>We Do Not Own Them</title>
		<link>http://www.providencecpc.org/2011/09/06/we-do-not-own-them/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Sep 2011 14:55:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>James McDonald</dc:creator>
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<p><em>&#8220;My mom is always nagging me.&#8221;</em></p>
<p><em>&#8220;My parents demand so much of me. I can never please them.&#8221;</em></p>
<p><em>&#8220;Sometimes I think I&#8217;m just a slave in this house.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>In my years of ministry I have had many opportunities to counsel with parents and children in conflict. I have heard the quotes above repeated often. Statements like these can indeed be a manifestation of rebellion; yet, they can likewise be a cry for help.</p>
<p>Many children in our day need help when it comes to vision. They need a sense of calling in their walk with the Lord, and an appreciation for the parents God has blessed them with—parents who are given to prepare their children to take on their mission in the Kingdom.</p>
<p>In some ways, childrearing can be compared to slavery. I&#8217;m not talking about the slavery that was practiced in the antebellum years of America; rather, childrearing can be compared to the biblical slavery documented for us in the Old Testament—an outline that was given to protect slaves and prepare them for independent living. While it is not a perfect comparison, there are certainly principles that are similar in both practices.</p>
<p>We read in Galatians 4:1–2, “Now I say that the heir, as long as he is a child, does not differ at all from a slave, though he is master of all, but is under guardians and stewards until the time appointed by the father.”</p>
<p>Notice, as a slave was to obey and submit to his master, so a child is commanded to obey his parents and submit to their discipline. As slaves were expected to do their work faithfully, with excellence, so children should be taught to fulfill their tasks completely.</p>
<p>There were indeed different types of slavery in ancient Israel. Some were made slaves as a result of military conquest over the pagan nations. Others became slaves if they were found to be thieves and could not pay restitution. They would remain in slavery until their debt was retired. However, there were others who became slaves of their own volition. Perhaps they could not provide for themselves or were those who needed protection. In cases like this, they would sell themselves into the household of one stronger and more able (voluntary servitude). They could remain slaves for at least six years.</p>
<p>If we are going to consider the analogy of slaves and children, we obviously should do so from the standpoint of those in the category of biblical slavery—those who were weak and needed protection. And if this is the case, parents should be mindful of the duties that were required of slaveholders.</p>
<p>God’s Word gives numerous examples of how He protected Hebrew slaves from cruel and excessive punishment. Hebrew slaves were allowed to enjoy the Sabbath rest with the rest of the community. But, most importantly, Hebrew slaves were groomed for freedom; they were prepared to go out on their own and to live successfully.</p>
<p>As parents, it is important for us to continually communicate to our children this truth: &#8220;All that we ask of you is aligned with all that we hope for you.”</p>
<p>Yet, this is where the breakdown occurs in many Christian homes, even conservative Christian homes. We as parents fail to communicate our commitment to the Kingdom of God and our expectation that our children will embrace the Kingdom call as well.</p>
<p>Some parents, perhaps due to their own laziness, allow their children to grow up as wild weeds with little to no restraint. Suddenly these parents are surprised to find that their children are ill-prepared to face the duties of real-life. If these had been slaves, rather than children, these parents, would have been masters. And these masters would likely have eventually found the tables turned; the slaves would be the masters and the masters would be the slaves.</p>
<p>I have seen children, sinfully indulged when they were little, grow up to be young adults who expect and demand that their parents fulfill their every whim—demanding money, car keys, service, excessive entertainment, toys and more. Such parents have not raised their children for the mission, rather they have raised children for the welfare system. Children who are not raised with an understanding of a biblical work ethic will later expect their needs to be met by others.</p>
<p>On the other hand, there are parents who run a very tight ship—parents whose households run at peak efficiency at all times. While efficiency is good, and a strong work ethic is a worthy goal, we need to remember that we are training our children for their <em>own</em> homes—we must actively teach our sons and our daughters to think through the issues of life on their own. We will not always be there to hand them a schedule or to tell them what to do next. In addition, we must work toward the goal of seeing our children enter into godly marriages and established households of their own.</p>
<p>Householders in biblical times, understood that they were to prepare their slaves for the day when they would stand on their own. They invested in them, provided for them, taught them of the goodness and mercy of the Lord, and looked forward to the day when they would be strong. Likewise, Christian parents should look forward to the day when their children leave father and mother and cleave to their spouse, setting up their own household for the glory of God.</p>
<p>It is time for us to see our children not as our property, not as our friends, not as a burden, but rather as gifts of God whose hearts we have been entrusted to steward until that day when they are sent out to accomplish the Lord&#8217;s work. We are indeed raising our children for freedom.</p>
<p><em>And to make it legal, the opinions expressed herein are not necessarily those of the other elders or members of Providence Church.</em></p>
<h6>Originally published in July/August 2011 issue <a href="https://www.highlandsstore.com/subscriptions.cfm" target="_blank">Every Thought Captive</a> &#8211; are you a subscriber?</h6>
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		<title>Psalms for a Healthy Worship</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 May 2011 15:56:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>James McDonald</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://www.providencecpc.org/2011/05/02/psalms-for-a-healthy-worship/' addthis:title='Psalms for a Healthy Worship '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_button_google_plusone" g:plusone:size="medium"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>When I was a boy, I lived a life that some children may consider adventurous– I traveled with the carnival. Bright lights, games, fun music, and junk food galore—it was a life filled with sensuality and pleasure seeking. However, my family wasn’t there just to be entertained. My father owned a few booths, or “joints.” [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://www.providencecpc.org/2011/05/02/psalms-for-a-healthy-worship/' addthis:title='Psalms for a Healthy Worship ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
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<p>When I was a boy, I lived a life that some children may consider adventurous– I traveled with the carnival. Bright lights, games, fun music, and junk food galore—it was a life filled with sensuality and pleasure seeking.</p>
<p>However, my family wasn’t there just to be entertained. My father owned a few booths, or “joints.” As carnival goers passed by, hawkers would call out to the crowd, inviting them to their booth to test their dexterity by tossing hoops, throwing baseballs, or shooting bb guns.</p>
<p>For a time, my mother ran the cotton candy machine. Thus, in addition to free rides, I had access to a never ending supply of fluffy, colored sugar. As a child who had developed a taste for pseudo-food, I never seemed to tire of that sweet indulgence.</p>
<p>I don’t know how much of that junk I consumed; but, I am sure that my dentist has put at least one of his children through graduate school from the money I spent repairing my teeth. Looking back, I find it interesting that I found pleasure in eating so many foods that were completely void of nutrition, and, though I couldn’t tell at the time, flavor. And, not only was a lot of what I was eating lacking in any nutrition, some of it was actually damaging my body. However, as a child who had been fooled by a deep fried, sugar coated life, I had no idea how weak I was becoming from a diet of emptiness.</p>
<p>Ponder that story for a minute. Now relate this account to the fare you consume every week in worship. If the music you sing at church were compared to food, what would your meal look like? Are you snacking on cotton candy? Popping down a few corn dogs? Maybe you’re enjoying the emotional high of an exciting sugar-dusted funnel cake or two. Or, perhaps you enjoy nachos covered in what my wife calls melted Barbie dolls.</p>
<p>How is your worship health? Is your growth being stunted by candy coated emptiness; or, are you being nourished with the good stuff? Is your worship likened more to roasted organic meats; fresh grown, rich colored vegetables and herbs; and juicy sun-soaked fruits? Are you getting a well-rounded, nourishing diet of music at your church?</p>
<p>We read in chapter three of the book of Colossians that we are to “let the word of Christ dwell in [us] richly in all wisdom, teaching and admonishing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in [our] hearts to the Lord.” This represents a well rounded menu for worship music: psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs.</p>
<p>I know there are some who take the position that this verse mandates what is known as “exclusive psalmody;” that is, only metrical psalms are to be sung in public worship. I do not hold this position; rather, I support “inclusive psalmody.” I believe the psalms should be a regular part of corporate worship. There are indeed many other songs in the Bible than just those in the Book of Psalms (i.e., Ex. 15:1-18, 1 Sam.2:1-10, Isa 38:10-20, Luke 1:46-55, Luke 1:67-79, Jude 24-25, Rev. 5:9-10). In addition, we are commanded in both the Old Testament and the New Testament to sing to the Lord a new song. Thus, there is value in singing other songs of praise to the Lord, as well as the great hymns of the faith. And, like a balanced diet, there is a place for all three categories of singing.</p>
<p>Nonetheless, what kind of music is being sung in most churches these days? And why? Much like my appetite for cotton candy, a growing number of ministers and worship leaders make selections based on how the music makes people <em>feel</em>. They focus on whether or not the style or the arrangement appeals to the senses.</p>
<p>Our flesh desires music that touches our emotions—music that makes us move or makes us cry. For this reason, many churches emphasize either hymns or praise choruses, what some may call “spiritual songs.” If hymns are still used, they are often jazzed up and verses are left out.</p>
<p>So, what of the Psalms? In many circles, they have been ignored, overlooked, even forgotten. Some may claim that they do sing the psalms, as there are a number of praise choruses that include at least a verse. Take, for example, the familiar chorus, “As the Deer.”</p>
<blockquote><p>As the deer panteth for the water | So my soul longeth after thee | You alone are my heart’s desire | And I long to worship thee</p></blockquote>
<p>It starts with the first verse of Psalm 42. However, as a praise chorus, it truly misses the point of the Psalm. In the second verse, the song talks of Jesus being our friend and brother. The third verse confesses that we want Him more than gold and silver. Both of these are certainly nice reminders, but this praise chorus is not Psalm 42.</p>
<p>In Psalm 42, the psalmist is communicating a heartfelt plea to God while he is surrounded by a host of enemies, even those who seem to question the power of God. Like many of us, this psalm seeks to find God in the midst of the challenges of life, and how, when all seems against us, we can trust in the Lord. Verse 11, from a metrical Psalter, says this, “O why, my soul, do you despair? Why so discouraged be? Hope now in God, I’ll praise Him still. My help, my God is He.”  This is a nutritious bite, is it not?</p>
<p>We miss out on so much richness and variety in our worship diet when we ignore the Psalms. The Bible encourages us to let the Word of God dwell in us richly. One wonderful and powerful way to do this is to sing the Psalms. When we sing the Psalms, we are literally singing the Bible. And not just a verse or two! We are singing the Word of God in context! Thus, we are singing, proclaiming, and teaching sound doctrine. We are introducing ourselves to the richness of theology; from the total depravity of man, to the redemption we have in Jesus, to the victory of Jesus over the nations of the earth. We are being protected from heresy and prepared to enter into the realm of spiritual warfare with confidence!</p>
<p>And, yet, in singing the Psalms, we do so with true emotion. Rather than manipulate the senses, the Psalms—the Word of God—touches the spirit. Far from cotton candy hymns or spiritual songs covered in cheese, the Psalms fill and nourish.</p>
<p>So, ponder the health of the worship music you are feeding yourself or your congregation. What are you consuming? Is it right? Is it Biblical? Consider the Psalms!</p>
<p><em>And to make it legal, the opinions expressed herein are not        necessarily  those of the other elders or members of Providence Church.</em></p>
<h6>Originally published in May/June 2011 issue <a href="https://www.highlandsstore.com/subscriptions.cfm" target="_blank">Every Thought Captive</a> &#8211; are you a subscriber?</h6>
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		<title>Tornado Relief Efforts</title>
		<link>http://www.providencecpc.org/2011/04/28/tornado-relief-efforts/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Apr 2011 17:03:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>James McDonald</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://www.providencecpc.org/2011/04/28/tornado-relief-efforts/' addthis:title='Tornado Relief Efforts '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_button_google_plusone" g:plusone:size="medium"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>And if one member suffers, all the members suffer with it; or if one member is honored, all the members rejoice with it. ~ 1 Corinthians 12:26 4/30/11 Update: We spent quite a bit of time on the phone last night with folks on the ground in Alabama. The outpouring of love and help has [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://www.providencecpc.org/2011/04/28/tornado-relief-efforts/' addthis:title='Tornado Relief Efforts ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://www.providencecpc.org/2011/04/28/tornado-relief-efforts/' addthis:title='Tornado Relief Efforts '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_button_google_plusone" g:plusone:size="medium"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div><p style="text-align: center;"><em>And if one member suffers, all the members suffer with it; or if one member is honored, all the members rejoice with it. ~ 1 Corinthians 12:26</em></p>
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<blockquote><p><strong>4/30/11 Update:</strong> We spent quite a bit of time on the phone last night with folks on the ground in Alabama. The outpouring of love and help has been amazing. The Body of Christ is coming together and helping all in need. The Gospel of Jesus Christ is being lived out before the lost. With regard to the families in Ashville (where the Boyd, Crawford, and Lee families lived), volunteers have found almost total devastation. Most of the homes and many of the buildings are destroyed or severely damaged. Some of you have offered food and clothing. However, there is no room to store even the basic supplies. What is needed the most right now is labor and money. There is much to rebuild in this community. And all of the families are thankful for your generosity!  Your tax-deductible gifts are making a difference!</p></blockquote>
<p>The stories of heartbreak and loss from the devastating storms in Alabama continue to pour in. Our church has many friends in one of the hardest hit areas outside of Birmingham. At one point, we were working to establish a church plant there. A number of the families in that community have lost everything.</p>
<p>Tom Lee, father of thirteen, lost his life when his home collapsed on him and his family during the tornado. His wife and most of their children were trapped under the rubble for hours before friends (who had also lost their homes) arrived from two miles away to help. Three of the children were hospitalized. Miraculously, no one had any broken bones (even the daughter who had been pinned under a piano!).</p>
<p>As the storm descended upon this small town, four neighboring families sought refuge together with the Crawford family (whose husband/father helped free the Lee family from the rubble). The Crawfords, who just had baby number 9 this month, had the only home on the street with a basement. After the storm passed, everyone in the basement was safe, but the home above was completely destroyed. In addition, Kelly Crawford’s father had a massive heart attack yesterday morning; so, neither he nor his wife were in their home (which was destroyed) when the storm hit.</p>
<p>We have set up a fund to help these families and many others. If you would like to participate in this effort, you can send a check to: Providence Church, 401 S. Carol Ave., Morton, IL, 61550. Or, you can use the link below to send your funds immediately. All monies received into this fund will be dispersed to the victims of the storm in Alabama. If you would like your donation to help a specific family or individual, please specify that on your check, or send an email along with your online donation to:</p>
<p>service AT providencepeoria DOT org.</p>
<p>Total funds received to date: <strong>$15,973.51</strong></p>
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